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See the collectionA penalty shootout game for kids in the garden fits a small patch of lawn. The goal is two household objects, a length of string marks the width, and the shot distance is roughly 4 to 6 metres rather than a professional 11.
I set the spot at a full-size distance the first time, purely out of habit, and watched every single shot fall short before I worked out the whole game was over before it had started. Scored the right way, a low round never turns into a knockout with one visible loser, and the embedded game below lets your child feel the actual pressure-kick moment before trying it for real.

Backyard penalty shootout
Two household objects, a welly boot and a plastic plant pot work well, stood upright roughly 1.5 to 2 metres apart mark the goal mouth. Connect them with a length of string, a hose, or anything else lying around that lays flat on the grass. No crossbar needed, and no trip to a shop either.
Mark the shooting spot 4 to 6 metres back. That's close enough for a 5 to 9 year old beginner to genuinely threaten the goal, and far enough back that a save still feels earned rather than automatic. A full-size 11-metre spot just produces a wall of missed shots and a bored goalkeeper.
Penalty game for kids
Five shots each way. Both players take a fixed five shots at the goal and five turns in it, so nobody plays only one role for the whole game.
Every attempt scores something. A goal is a point, a save is a point too, and a shot that misses the goal entirely counts as a point for the keeper as well, so the keeper is never just there to be beaten. They're actively earning their own score with every dive, and every miss.
No sudden-death, ever. The round always runs the full ten attempts. A bad start can still be a good finish, and there's never a single moment that decides the whole game.
The wider thinking behind this design lives on mistake-proof football scoring systems, which this page borrows instead of re-deriving.
Garden penalty shootout rules
There's one real skill this format teaches beyond aim: watching for a keeper's tell, a lean, a shift of weight, before committing to a side. And in goal, giving away as little of that tell as possible yourself.
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Running this for a group
Planning this for a birthday party or a few children at once rather than one-on-one? The same rules work in rotation. See running this for a party group for the full sequenced plan built around this exact game.

Quick answers
Roughly 4 to 6 metres for a 5 to 9 year old beginner, close enough to genuinely threaten the goal, far enough that a save still feels earned.
Two household objects stood upright, a welly boot and a plastic plant pot work well, roughly 1.5 to 2 metres apart, connected by a length of string. No crossbar needed.
Score every attempt, not just goals: a save is worth a point too, a shot that misses the goal entirely is a point for the keeper, both players take five shots and five turns in goal, and the round always runs the full ten attempts with no sudden-death ending.
Keep going
Three places to go next, depending on what's left to sort. If you still need something to shoot at, how to make a football goal at home safely has options that will not tip over.
Start with the whole Small Garden Games collection.
See the collectionThe wider thinking behind why every attempt should score.
See the philosophyThe full sequenced plan for a birthday party built around this game.
See the party planTonight's five minutes
No sudden-death, no single moment that decides the whole game.